Q. My wife and I have been married for 25 years, and just like most marriages, it’s had its ups and downs. But for the most part it’s been great — until recently, when I found out she was flirting ...

We’re looking for letters! Send your relationship question to loveletters@globe.com or fill out this form. Q. I’m a 42-year-old happily married man (15 years) with kids. I adore my wife. There is a ...