Ok, I'm using realVNC to connect to my g/f computer to help her if she has trouble with anything (e.g. the 2am call to 'make it work' when I'm 30 mins away). The trouble is when connected I can't see ...

Has anyone ever seen this behavior? The taskbar shows up and looks like it should, but clicking on start does nothing, and right clicking doesnt bring up the menu. The icons on the desktop are usable ...