Grief Thoughts 💭 on Instagram: "This couplet by Ahmed Faraz highlights the difference between superficial gestures and genuine feelings. In the first line, he points out that people often confuse takalluf (formal politeness or pretentious courtesy) with ikhlās (true sincerity). Just because someone behaves nicely or shows outward respect doesn't mean their intentions are pure. In the second line, he deepens the thought by saying that not everyone who shakes hands with you is a real friend - man

Gina Zapanta | Empowered with Gina on Instagram: "I keep seeing these articles saying you’ll regret distancing yourself from certain family or friends. Let’s be honest… people don’t choose estrangement on a whim. It usually comes after years of explaining, shrinking, forgiving, and praying someone will finally meet you halfway. When someone chooses distance, that’s not impulsive. That’s self-preservation. Accepting what you can’t change does not mean you owe anyone access to your peace, your hom