Dominiq & Mart on Instagram: "Non-monogamy debriefs are one of the best parts of polyamory, don’t you agree? 😍"

Decolonizing Love on Instagram: "When you’re an egalitarian polyamorist, your values sometimes have to stand taller than your jealousy. My meta’s favorite band is Garbage, so there was no way I was going to stand in the way of them having that moment. On principle alone, that would’ve been wrong. Instead, I asked for what I’d like given the circumstances. Nick sent me photos and videos from the show, and that helped. One thing I always tell people I coach is: don’t hold back on asking for what y

Decolonizing Love on Instagram: "Decolonizing into polyamory is not about chasing an ideal. It’s about unlearning disconnection. Colonial culture taught us to perform, to suppress, to shame ourselves when we don’t fit the ideal script. There is no liberation in disconnection, it’s exile from our own feelings. The antidote is self-honoring. Becoming self-actualized means allowing your relationships to grow from authenticity, not performance. You’re not here to be a “perfect polyamorist.” You’re h